On the Death of a Loved One

 

There are different factors associated with the death of a loved one.  These factors will dictate how you will respond.  This page will attempt to explain the possible situations and ways to respond to each.

When Death Occurs at Home

A Physician

Your physician must be contacted in order for him/her to certify and sign the death certificate.  A coroner is not needed when the family or a friend is in attendance and the person is being treated by his physician.  In the event of an unexpected, unattended or unnatural death, the police and coroner should be notified.

Your Funeral Director

Your funeral director should be notified as soon as possible the help relieve the family of any concerns or worries.  The funeral director will be able to assist you with preliminary details that need to be organized before friends and families are notified.  Your funeral director will arrange to transfer your loved one to the funeral home as soon as possible and can help you with the police and coroner if they are called.

Your Clergy

Your minister, priest or pastor should be contacted, depending on your religious and church affiliation.  His/her support may also be important at this time.

When Death Occurs While Traveling

It is preferable in this situation to contact your funeral director at home before contacting a funeral home with whom you are unfamiliar.  Your funeral director at home can make all the necessary arrangements to bring the deceased home.  This will save you some stress and keep the costs to a minimum.  

If cremation is to occur, your funeral director can help with the decision of who to contact.  A disadvantage to this is that the family members not traveling with the deceased will not have an opportunity to say good-bye.  Discussing these matters with your funeral director will help you make the needed decisions for your family.

When Death Occurs in the Hospital or Other Care Facility

The hospital or care facility will contact the physician and notify the family when death occurs.  They will usually notify the funeral home you have selected.  The family should contact the funeral home as soon as possible so they may proceed immediately with caring for your loved one in the manner you desire and begin the necessary arrangements for services.